Sacred Resilience
Kristi Lynn Stoken is a Trauma-Informed Coach specializing in Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and a Survivor.
Sacred Resilience is a heartfelt space for anyone navigating trauma, healing, and the long road back to themselves. Kristi Lynn offers personal reflections, raw truths, and spiritual insights on reclaiming wholeness after pain. Whether you’ve faced abuse, grief, loss, or any form of trauma, this space is for you.
Because you matter, your story matters, and healing is possible - one sacred step at a time.
Episodes

Oct 16, 2025
Oct 16, 2025
5 min
In this deeply grounding episode, we explore the connection between emotional healing and physical. Through gentle reflection and spiritual insight, she reminds listeners that healing is not only psychological or physical, but sacred. When we release what the soul has carried for too long, the body finally exhales.
With warmth and wisdom, Kristi Lynn shares how God meets us in our hardest places, transforming trauma into testimony and pain into purpose. This episode is an invitation to listen to your body, honor your story, and trust that even from the deepest breaking, beauty can rise again.

Oct 9, 2025
Oct 9, 2025
5 min
Emotional abuse doesn’t leave bruises, but its wounds can run deep. In this episode, we explore how verbal and emotional abuse can lead to PTSD, trauma responses that mimic ADHD, and even agoraphobia. Together, we’ll uncover how words shape our nervous system, why the body holds onto fear, and how healing is possible.

Oct 2, 2025
Oct 2, 2025
8 min
In this episode, we explore the hidden realities of covert abuse and coercive control—the forms of abuse that often go unseen but leave lasting scars. Unlike physical violence, these patterns work in silence, eroding self-trust, independence, and identity. Together, we’ll name what’s really happening, shine light on why it so often goes unrecognized, and talk about the growing movement to include coercive control in domestic violence laws. Most importantly, you’ll hear practical steps for finding support, reclaiming autonomy, and knowing love should never feel like fear.
If you’ve ever doubted yourself in a relationship, wondered if you were “too sensitive,” or felt trapped without visible wounds, this episode is for you. You are not alone. You are not broken. You are becoming.
Resources for assistance:
National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788. Advocates are available 24/7.
If you are ever in immediate danger, please call 911.
If you find yourself overwhelmed, or with thoughts of suicide, please dial 988.

Sep 30, 2025
Sep 30, 2025
3 min
*Bonus Mid-Week Episode*
In this episode, we reflect on the themes of Yom Kippur, fasting, forgiveness, and renewal, and how they mirror the journey of healing after trauma. Together, we explore what it means to fast from the inner critic, reconcile with our true selves by extending forgiveness, and embrace hope as we turn the page toward renewal.

Sep 22, 2025
Sep 22, 2025
3 min
A new episode of Sacred Resilience is released every Friday, but this week’s episode comes early as it reflects on Rosh Hashanah and the sacred act of regathering.
In this episode of Sacred Resilience, Kristi Lynn explores the theme of regathering the self after trauma, drawing inspiration from the season of Rosh Hashanah. Just as the shofar’s call awakens the soul, we, too, can reclaim our scattered pieces and return to wholeness. With reflection and tenderness, Kristi Lynn invites listeners to see healing as a sacred act of returning to who we’ve always been.

Sep 18, 2025
Sep 18, 2025
4 min
Kristi Lynn Stoken shares how the pain of emotional abuse can transform into unexpected gifts, reminding us that resilience reshapes even the deepest wounds into wisdom and strength.

Sep 11, 2025
Sep 11, 2025
6 min
In this episode of Sacred Resilience, we explore the often-overlooked physical effects of emotional abuse. Trauma doesn’t just affect the mind - it leaves lasting imprints on the body. Kristi Lynn shares her own story of how emotional abuse manifested physically in her life, offering hope, validation, and a reminder that healing is possible.

Sep 5, 2025
Sep 5, 2025
7 min
In this episode of Sacred Resilience, we hold space for a powerful story shared by a survivor. With honesty and courage, this story sheds light on both the pain of trauma and the strength it takes to keep moving forward. By listening, we honor the survivor’s voice and affirm that no one is ever truly alone in their journey.
⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode includes themes of trauma and abuse that may be difficult to hear. Please care for yourself as you listen.
If you need support, you can reach the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.org.

Aug 29, 2025
Aug 29, 2025
5 min
In this heartfelt episode of Sacred Resilience, Kristi Lynn sheds light on a deeply overlooked reason why many survivors of domestic violence stay: they won’t leave their pets behind. She explores the emotional bond between survivors and their animals, the real dangers pets face in abusive homes, and the lack of safe options for both. With compassion and advocacy, this episode calls for greater awareness and support so survivors and their beloved companions can find safety together.

Aug 22, 2025
Aug 22, 2025
7 min
In this episode of Sacred Resilience, Kristi Lynn Stoken explores what it means to begin healing while still living in a domestic violence situation. For many, leaving isn’t immediately possible, whether because of safety concerns, children, finances, or simply not being ready yet. Kristi Lynn offers gentle, practical strategies for protecting your inner world, finding micro-moments of peace, and nurturing resilience even amid abuse.
If you are in the United States and it’s safe to do so, you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 or text “START” to 88788.





